Millions of people all over the world would love to become a success.
Even with the best ideas and clever concepts virtually all fall by the way side.
Millions of people will never become a success even though plenty of them try.
Maybe you are one of these? Perhaps you have experienced wanting it all and getting none of it. After all there are countless intelligent, skilful, determined souls out there (just like you), so how come so few ever reach the heights of success? What is it that’s in the way of major success?
Amazingly it’s NOT a failure in planning or too large an amount of challenges to battle away nor any economic downturn or lack of viable support that pulled down the curtain on all their dreams. It was ONE simple factor that we all suffer from at one time or another. Or all the time.
Let’s take a look!
Put yourself in their shoes – a bright exciting project or product, even image to promote, and it’s a certainty that it’s brand new and the likes of it have never been on the scene before. Yeah, you’ve spent time checking it out; it’s got legs, there’s huge potential here, in fact the more you look, the more you can’t help but keep seeing it taking off. Months of months of inner excitement leads to going for it and working out how to bring it all about……and then!
You have to get started for success…..WRONG!
I have read book after book (especially the so called ‘Smart Thinking’ ones) and seen business guru social media post in their thousands all shouting up the key to creating success is…..TO JUST GET STARTED. To get on with building it, forming it, improving it, learning from it, expanding it….you get my drift.
Except….THAT WON’T WORK!!
It won’t work due to one factor and the No.1 reason most people will never be a success.
And here it is…….
They don’t believe that they will be a success. Personally believe about themselves. Sure, the idea is a sound, if not an incredible idea, it’s just that it’s THEM that is going to develop it. And that won’t ever happen because inside where it all counts a voice is telling them/reminding them that they aren’t good enough or clever enough or possess the ability or always have been a failure before yada, yada, yada. The list could go on. The BS list.
As soon as the actual cool, mega idea gets time for action to get it off the ground, in comes those personal negatives shouting, ‘FORGET IT!’ louder than a town crier announcing the King is dead.
Success is an inside job. True success means conquering our own lesser beliefs about ourselves and the destiny that we will experience being who we are. A confident, self-aware, self-accepting soul can scale mountains and overcome any obstacle because they just know they are enough.
So, if you want to be a success be the kind of person who will never give up……at breaking anything within you that ever tells you that you won’t make it. Face it, tackle it, bust it, and get rid of it once and for all.
When you do, you will start feeling one hell of a success anyway!
Five thoughts, ideas, insights, or quotes to power up your mind to think differently and creatively about life and the future. Put all previous thinking away and open up a brand new world of the supermind.
This week – society
Your super 5 about society for your mind to play with. Let go, be free….stretch your mind.
Broadly speaking society is US as humans living and working in accepted social, cultural, legal, and belief systems formed into communities and nations. But is society as we know it ripe for change? Or is society itself the problem? Something to ponder as you now go into SuperMind Saturday and look at society.
- John Lennon once said, ‘Society is run by insane people for insane objectives‘. Which opens up a huge question to start for your mind. WHO actually runs society or are we all just accepting the one we kind of live by each day….is that insane itself?
- Next perhaps an even bigger question that I’ve been asking myself for years but maybe you have never been asked before. WHERE is society?
- As a whole ‘society’ sets rules by the overall opinions and morals of most of us that become acknowledged laws and guidelines. But there are clearly some aching gaps (online abuse seems normal these days) that we have let slip as a world. How does society keep up with a fast changing online, digital, and cyber based world?
- We often feel governed by the opinion of other people in society especially in what we wear (think the punk era), what we like to do (most notably as fun), and how we behave. The ‘overall’ view is what most of us adhere to. How can society accept more individuality as part of a wider structure that keeps order and civility?
- Finally I’m going to ask you straight (you are free to answer in your mind with one or a good few responses). You are in control of society….what is it based on for the good of all?
Ok, that’s your lot. SuperMinds. Get busy thinking about society and what it means and should mean.
Please add your comments or insights about society below, but of course nothing abusive in any form will ever be allowed. Anyway….SuperMinds could never, and would never, do that. Have a great week.
See you next time for more Saturday Super thinking.
Do you feel all mixed up?
Feeling confused and unable to process your emotions? Or not sure what to believe and from who and what to do about it? More importantly struggling to make sense out of right and wrong inside you?
At times like these it’s easy to look outside yourself for the answers. Going over everything that’s happened and who is involved and acting all Sherlock Holmes in detecting how on Earth you have ended so mixed up and all over the place.
But, it’s not on the outside where you will discover the real reason your head is spinning. It’s on the inside. And that’s why you keep bouncing around feeling you know why one minute your emotions are on a rollercoaster ride and then the very next moment you’re brought right back to Earth without a clue. The good news is there’s nothing wrong with you. Your are just so trapped in a mixture of everyone else’s views, opinions, standards, and values that you can’t see the wood for the trees to be able to get to your own.
Knowing Yourself.
When you were growing up all manner of people gave you advice and insight on how to best live life – parents, family, authority figures like teachers or coaches, peer groups, friends, even your local community and society itself. Without realising it you absorbed this like a sponge without ever asking yourself how YOU believed life should be lived. YOUR beliefs, standards, values, and principles got put on the backburner meaning knowing yourself took a back seat.
Trouble is you can’t switch off those you own even if they are deep within you. They are part of you, they are your DNA, your blueprint as a human, your emotional centre. If you don’t open them up and connect to them they sit in the background whispering and bothering you but YOU NEVER KNOW WHY.
Suddenly situations develop and you don’t know what to make of them. What you have been taught simply doesn’t fit with what’s before your eyes and as you haven’t honoured (or perhaps were allowed to in the past!) your personal ethics and moral compass, you end up all mixed up unsure of which way up or down is or where to turn for good or bad.
A Beautiful Mix.
So unmix yourself. Now is the time to get back to you. To finally accept what matters most to you from standards to behaviours, choices to actions, feelings to have and the way to treat others. Knowing yourself is the best relationship you can ever have in your life. And the one that will solve pretty much any problem you could ever have.
Prioritise the right way to live and be that feels right within you. Take onboard the well meaning input of others since you were born, but it’s firmly all about your self awareness of right and wrong as a person living THEIR life that is the key.
Because your are the perfect mix of human emotions and preferences and viewpoints that make you…well, YOU.
And that’s the only person you ever have to be!!
Five thoughts, ideas, insights, or quotes to power up your mind to think differently and creatively about life and the future. Put all previous thinking away and open up a brand new world of the supermind.
This week – questions
Your super 5 about questions for your mind to play with. Let go, be free….stretch your mind.
In modern life everyone wants to speak, to be a voice that is heard, to have their opinion shared and agreed with or followed. This is killing the art of one high quality communication, learning, and understanding – the use of questions. Here at SMT I am bringing that back for SuperMind Saturday.
- The greatest shift with questioning begins with self questioning. And so, if you have never done before, answer this question to yourself. Why do you think the way you do?
- You have been given the ability to bring all the most powerful leaders of the world into a room to ask them one question for the good of humanity that they must answer. What is the question you would ask them?
- Wisdom comes in questions as it forces us to get to the truth or face reality. What is the greatest question you have ever been asked?
- The past often haunts us and the people that came with it. To that end you may have a burning question you want to ask someone from back then. But, if they are no longer alive or able to respond then…how are you going to move on so you are happy and not living in old pain, hurt, or confusion anymore?
- Kubra Sait said, ‘Asking questions is the first way to begin change’. How can we ask more questions of each other to change the world for the better?
That’s Supermind Saturday for this week. Keep asking yourself these through the week to open up more of your mind to evolve its untapped power. Questioning is good and wise (more so if you listen to the answers!). Consider more, reflect more, think more, activate your connection to your personal mind more.
See you next time for more super thinking.
‘Have you seen the latest blockbuster film?
That’s a question that goes round every office workplace or friends group every week. It might be the latest big Hollywood movie or the hot drama show drawing in the viewers on TV. It’s a leading question that most fall for.
If films or TV series aren’t your thing and you respond, ‘No, not seen it…and probably won’t’, you will be met with shocked looks and the classic retort, ‘You HAVEN’T seen? Everyone has watched it!’. Not everyone, you haven’t. You have become one of the people who don’t do things. Things that everyone else does because, well, everyone else, is too.
Now, that’s a challenge because us humans are tribal. It all began in our prehistoric times. With few human beings on the planet then survival depended on joint efforts. As a group they combined together to catch food, stay safe, form relationships, forge unity, and procreate. That ethic was forged into their mentality – the lone person is at risk, unsupported, out on their own, and their future is grim.
The backdrop has changed (there are no T-Rex’s roaming outside or woolly Mammoth’s to snare for dinner), but the principal remains to this day both mentally and emotionally. Be part of the group, or be exiled as a outcast never to be able to return, talked about and ridiculed. Which is why centuries later we all go to the same hit movie because everyone else is just like we all wore sabre tooth jewellery back in Neanderthal days as they were cool and popular. Our psychology is still prehistoric. We want to fit it, we want to be part of the tribe.
The Road Less Travelled.
Poet Robert Frost in his epic work, The Road Not Taken’, wrote the immortal lines, ‘Two roads diverged in a wood and I – I took the one less travelled by and that has made all the difference’. His poem is an allegory – the road is our lives and which route we choose to go ‘when we can’t see the wood for the trees’, i.e. the way ahead is not clear. Most do not take the road less travelled. The tribe walks the other path.
But Steve Jobs did in his thinking and design for the I-Phone. Dick Fosbury did in his jumping style in the high jump. Clarice Cliff did in her brand of art deco styled ceramics. And Pablo Picasso certainly did in his surreal art. They and many other outliers and renegades were people who DIDN’T do things others did. They never cared about mammoth hair as a fashion statement or T-Rex claws to eat their meals with. And they wouldn’t be in the cinema line to find out what the fuss is about at the movies or catching every episode of TV’s big ratings buster just so they can be part of the chat over the watercooler.
They are people who don’t do things others do, they do things they do. Backing that up they think how they do, see what they see, believe what they believe, and choose roads other don’t. It makes them happily individual in a tribe of one. If you look at most truly stand out people who have made and left a mark on this world, that’s what they have done too. They did only themselves. And that led to a blockbuster life that could be a movie itself!
How is it time in your life that you didn’t do what others do?
